Are Women Really Dream Killers??

Tom Lykis always said,

“Before you get married; make sure you have become all you can be. Women are dream killers!
When a women wants you to do something it's telling you that her dream comes first and that she doesn't care about your dream. They often secretly wish that you never reach your dreams so you can never trade up.”

I would have to agree with that, but….and an important but, they are only because we let them.
The woman’s angle is that, by keeping you at your status quo, she is the best you can get. There is no risk of you trading up, because she is as good as you can get. So the simple win-win scenario is keep the pressure on. Be all you can be – and force them to be all they can be….OR ELSE!!!

KIDS!!
One of the quickest ways to kill a man’s dreams is by getting pregnant. Watch this like a hawk. You have children when you are good and ready to have children and the only way to do that is by wearing a condom! Period. 100% of the Time!! “…but I want to feel you inside me Daddy”
Bull Crap!! Gentlemen, having a baby is like having an exotic car payment that fluctuates for 18 years. 216 monthly payments! Sit down and ask yourself, if I brought a Lamborghini right now and had to drive it for 18 years, could I still accomplish my dreams. And Trust me, that’s simplifying things. Changing oil’s got nothing on a dirty, sweet peas and carrots stanky diaper!!

SPEND MORE TIME & MONEY ON ME!
If you hear this because you are working towards your dreams and saving – forget it. If you satisfy this craving there will be something else. Trust me. Women are born to nag and men are born to give in. Just remember, when you are giving in, you are letting them kill your dreams.

If she wants to go on vacation, she will nag and nag until you are out of 5G’’s. Once this works the cycle will start again. Just like a crying baby; so don’t give in. Trust me, they will never be satisfied.

You’ve all heard the famous joke before:

A young woman goes to the shopping center to find a husband.
On the first floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men have jobs. The woman reads the sign and says to herself, "Well, that's better than my last boyfriend, but I wonder what's further up?" So up she goes.
The second floor sign reads: Floor 2 - These men have jobs and love kids. The woman remarks to herself, "That's great, but I wonder what's further up?" And up she goes again.

The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men have jobs, love kids and are extremely good looking. "Hmmm, better" she says. "But I wonder what's upstairs?"

The fourth floor sign reads: Floor 4 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking and help with the housework. "Wow!" exclaims the woman, "very tempting. BUT, there must be more further up!" And again she heads up another flight.

The fifth floor sign reads: Floor 5 - These men have jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak. "Oh, mercy me! But just think... what must be awaiting me further on?" So up to the sixth floor she goes.

The sixth floor sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 7,548,652 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor only exists as proof that women are impossible to please.

WE ARE REALLY AT FAULT
We are the culprits, they are just our accomplices. If you are really focused about something, then you won’t let anything stop you. We might blame it on our girlfriends or wives but in reality, we were just looking for an excuse to give up and they were there to blame. Then 5 years later, we’re pissed off at them for ruining our dreams.

You have been warned – so let’s take responsibility, take some action and Take Our Ball Back!!!

This is your Captain Speaking
-Captain Jack
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