ASK THE CAPTAIN

Tony from N.C. writes:
Dear Captain,

Just recently my girlfriend asked to move in with me. When I told her that I wasn't ready, it was a complete shock to her and now our relationship is spiraling out of control. Should I let her move in to put things back on track and get my sweet loving girlfriend back?

Tony, Tony, Tony,
This answer comes in two parts:

PART I
I'm not sure how old you are but you should not entertain the notion of moving anyone in your house until you are at least 27 years old. Moving in is like getting married; once they are in they are hard or impossible to get out. If you aren’t sure then you aren’t sure. You will never be 100% sure, but if you are 75/25 forget about it!

PART II
If you give her what she wants just because she is acting like a bitch; you've just wrote the script for the remainder of your relationship. She will now have a license to act like a bitch whenever you are not giving her exactly what she wants! You bagged her, you can always bag another. Men have the option of Y&H (Younger & Hotter) women don't. I am getting more, younger hotter tail now then I was when I was 25. Men get more confident, wise, arrogant and wealthier with age. This attracts hotter women. You will always have that going for you.

CONCLUSION:
Sit her down for a serious conversation. Tell her that the last thing you want to do is create a situation that is miserable for you both. Then in no uncertain terms; you tell her to
FIX HER ATTITUDE, or you will drop her like a bad transmission!! Say it and mean it.

-This is your Captain speaking
Men, let's Take Our Ball Back (T.O.B.B.)

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