A SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT
>> Thursday, April 16, 2009
Woman often wonder how they can get more from a man. How can they make their man more romantic? The simple answer is to show some appreciation. Woman walk around with this sense of entitlenent. Men are EXPECTED to pay for drinks, men are EXPECTED to pay for dinner. Ladies these are gifts. When they stop being gifts and become expectations then there is a problem. Living in the Midwest; you have all four seasons. When the sun shines we are greatful because we haven't learned to expect it.
When a Woman lives with a man she often wonders what her man is doing for her. She complains of never getting flowers or getting taken out to dinner; meanwhile her man is paying bills and hustling to keep cell phones on, keep food on the table, and rent paid. It's easy for someone else to buy roses or candy. That's how woman end up cheating. Some random guy, who is not expected to do anything, does something small. Some random guy, buys flowers, tells your girl that she looks nice today, buys a dinner, and the woman is "all in". Your boyfriend / Husband is home doing all of the heavy lifting and you are swooned by this guy holding the door for you.
Woman it's your own fault. If you feel you are entitled, then how can a man ever surprise you? If it's expected then it's not a gift. You have zapped the power out of a man to make you happy; and for a man that is everything. Once the man, can't be your superman; then he is powerless and his interest begans to fade.
Men go to prosittues simply because they are attentive and can act being happy and or excited by the small things that a man does. They make a man feel like he is their hero. Yes it could cost them a few hundred (or Thousand) but it's what he is not getting at home.
I am not asking you woman to ACT like you appreciate things, but really, truly appreciate the things your man does for you. If you don't and he is not your superman then leave him and find one that is. Then that will be a win win.
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1 comments:
I enjoyed reading your page it was enlightening for the most part. I can't and never will be able to speak from a mans point of view because I'm not a man and I don't know the way a man thinks, I do realize though in some instances, some men think the same way when it comes to other things, but then as with women their are some things that have happend in their lives that makes them think differently, with the being said both of your blogs really defend the actions of a man, because of what he feels his woman isnt doing at all or doing enough of, I've known women on the receiving in of being a super woman for their man and what thanks do they get? Being cheated on and degraded, but it's right because maybe in that man's mind he had a reason, be it that one day she was tired from raising the kids and maybe working, and forgot to clean up the house to make it spotless, and he was fed up and took money and spent it on a stripper...his actions were justified...because his wife for one day wasnt on her job. To say a man wants a traditional relationship in these days and ages isnt the truth in my opinion, why because the economy isnt good enough to have someone at home raising children while one person makes money, it's damn near impossible. With all of the single mothers that are doing a hellava job raising boys into men, raising girls into women, you mean to tell me black women arent nurturing? That's the biggest load of %#&@$! I have ever heard in my life. I don't think it's to much to ask when you're pulling your weight in your household for your husband/man to acknowledge that you exist, by bringing home flowers one day or a box of candy..where is the harm in that? Because of our role in the house hold we should be entitled to these things from time to time, regardless of our relationship status, does it have to happen on a regular basis no but should it happen? Why in the heck not? If it wasnt a black or white thing...then why would you mention black women being replaced by a white woman? That means it is a race thing! I can't tell you how to think or what to think for that matter we all are entitled to our opinions, and maybe you have been through somethings that made you feel this way, but I think it's a load of crap in all honesty for the most part. But its good to sometimes read what goes through a mans mind appreciation in a relationship should be a two way street PERIOD!
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